Best anal numbing lube.

Jerseybean69

Tourist
Looking for the best Lube to use for larger toys. Needs to Relax and numb.
As much as It was a turn on when I was doing it. I don’t really want to struggle so much next time. Can anybody recommend any other “on the shelves” items to buy and use.
 

Zaruxin

Citizen of Zooville
I recommend you don't use those kinds of products because it will reduce the chance of you feeling if something goes wrong. Instead I recommend you practice more & gradually go for bigger toys. Just a tip from someone experienced going from a finger to xl chance, it takes time going big, avoid shortcuts or you'll regret it later.
 

Jerseybean69

Tourist
appreciate the heads up. I kind of already knew that but I was just wondering if there was a product out there to help. Not looking to cut corners just assist the situation.
 
I definitely don't know for sure, but I feel like any lube that had a topical numbing agent would be at least somewhat regulated. You could probably find something herbal or holistic fairly easily, but anything stronger like lidocaine would be a bad idea anyway.
I agree with Zaruxin, it's how I worked up to a large chance; just take your time and be careful.
Give your hole some affection and appreciation!
 

ftmpupdee

Lurker
I'm gonna reccomend against any. The pain is there to tell you to slow down and stretch more and using a numbing agent will really increase the chances of tearing and tearing will cause scar tissue that will then inhibit your stretching journey in the future. Let alone you're just delaying the pain until after the session.
 

knottydog420

Tourist
I agree with the two posts that go along the lines of not using numbing lube, you can really really fuck yourself up. Buy a trainer kit, enjoy the slow build up of working your way up to the size you are looking for.

If I may ask, what is the size you are looking to go or the toy you are looking to take?
 

Dog&PonyShow

Tourist
I wholeheartedly agree with the above posters, you can do real damage using numbing lube, especially things containing lidocaine. You could use poppers to help get through a knot or something, but even that can be pretty dicey.
 

jellybean56

Tourist
You have either water based lube or silicone based lube, I advise silicone as it doesn't dissolve / dry out, its what fisting lubes and creams are made with, silicone lube, you might want to look in to those. Personally I still much prefer water based KY jelly. I don't recommend numbing ones as others have said, you need to feel it if theres any 'bad pain' and know when to stop, plus you want to feel all of the pleasure. I've had 2 small colon tears from this stuff, you feel it, you know when to stop. Tho I do dumb shit like use huge fresh sweetcorns when they're in season in summer hahaha but be patient, you'll stretch to your bigger toys in a short time, enjoy the toys you're at the size of now, you will 'outgrow' them and they won't be as enjoyable or even usable at some point.
 

dartel

Tourist
You have either water based lube or silicone based lube, I advise silicone as it doesn't dissolve / dry out, its what fisting lubes and creams are made with, silicone lube, you might want to look in to those. Personally I still much prefer water based KY jelly. I don't recommend numbing ones as others have said, you need to feel it if theres any 'bad pain' and know when to stop, plus you want to feel all of the pleasure. I've had 2 small colon tears from this stuff, you feel it, you know when to stop. Tho I do dumb shit like use huge fresh sweetcorns when they're in season in summer hahaha but be patient, you'll stretch to your bigger toys in a short time, enjoy the toys you're at the size of now, you will 'outgrow' them and they won't be as enjoyable or even usable at some point.
Disclaimer to this:
Never use silicone lube if you have a silicone toy, for example bad dragon/exotic erotics/zeta paws/anything similar. If it's platinum cured silicone no silicone lube. The lube will react with the toy and damage it.
 

jellybean56

Tourist
Disclaimer to this:
Never use silicone lube if you have a silicone toy, for example bad dragon/exotic erotics/zeta paws/anything similar. If it's platinum cured silicone no silicone lube. The lube will react with the toy and damage it.

I did not know this!! Mine are mostly PVC rubber I believe, FAAK and Doc Johnson. I'm assuming silicone toys are the ones that 'melt' in your drawer. I recommend water based lube anyway over silicone based.
 

Kristy

Citizen of Zooville
Looking for the best Lube to use for larger toys. Needs to Relax and numb.
As much as It was a turn on when I was doing it. I don’t really want to struggle so much next time. Can anybody recommend any other “on the shelves” items to buy and use.
No, do not anything to numb you. Bad move. Pain exists for reason. The purpose of pain is to tell you when you may be doing long-term, permanent or fatal damage, and to stop or to find a better way.
 

FloofyNewfie

Citizen of Zooville
Disclaimer to this:
Never use silicone lube if you have a silicone toy, for example bad dragon/exotic erotics/zeta paws/anything similar. If it's platinum cured silicone no silicone lube. The lube will react with the toy and damage it.
Also, if you intend on using a sex toy with your animal partner, you'll want to avoid silicon based lube as well. Water based lube only, and water needs to be the first ingredient.
 

dartel

Tourist
I'm assuming silicone toys are the ones that 'melt' in your drawer.
No that sounds like a cheap gel toy. Silicone is tough stuff and pretty much the best toy material. The reason silicon lube will damage it is because they're made of the same thing so the lube actually bonds with it, similar to how in the kitchen fats and oils will bond to plastic containers because oil and plastic are molecularly very similar.

Although that brings up another disclaimer. Silicon toys can react with some other cheap toy materials, such as gel, and the gel will actually melt the silicon and ruin it. So if you have silicon toys store them separately from non-silicon toys.
 
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