*sigh*It will happen one day. Nice guys always finish first sooner or later. It took me about 15 years to find my perfect man.
If you know they use it as a cop out then you know exactly what I mean.I cant speak for other women since I know some of them do use that as a cop out. But that is not me. I've dated assholes in the past and finally found a nice guy who accepts me. So when I say it i mean it only as a compliment.
For a weirdo like me? Pfft. It's not like I haven't tried, ya'know?I think there are two ways you can go about it. Either you specifically look for a woman who is already into this, or you introduce it to your girlfriend once you have been together for a while. The latter will probably give you more success than the former.
Also, as harsh as it sounds, I would like to give some advice to the user Pillar. Do not wait around to get lucky, you have to go out there and get it yourself.
Things don't just fall into your lap from above, like my mother used to say.
So how did the subject come up?I found my man entirely by blind luck. We met playing an online game. I didnt know he was into it and he didnt know I was. We have been together 9 years and after months of his hints, I finally got brave enough to admit it.
We were talking about different kinks one night and he tells me this story about these guys who watched a girl fuck a horse. Then just left it at that. After that, he would bring up the subject every once in a while. I finally just blurted it out and he said really? Then he admitted it was him that watched the girl and how much he loved it. Like I said it was blind luck or maybe fate?So how did the subject come up?
So happy it happened for you guys!